又係覆：阿邊個

Abigale,

Learn and Change... I would say...

Learning is internal enrichment. Change is the practice of this enrichment. Change is difficult as it is a trial of de-construction (unlearn) of old enrichments. It is even more difficult when it shall further undergo a denial of a past self, a betrayal and saying sorry, before changing to the final self.

If one can't face a denied past, can't get along with betrayal and can't say sorry to oneself, one cannot change.

And me? I need practice.

（原想中譯，放棄。）

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你話之前有個覺得好有智慧既長輩，依家感覺變左。

嗯，我會話：若果漸漸發覺自己對一個有智慧的人改變了 -- 原因不大可能是自己同樣變得同等有智慧（你不是他，他不是你，智慧是個人化的），而是你開始拿捏到智慧人的思考方式。

很多時，是智慧人的思考方式，而非他的智慧說話，是最令其他人覺得一個人有智慧的原因。

正如我向你提過 Dilbert，當我有天拿捏到 Dilbert 幽默之處之後，我便發覺他好像不再（像以往般）幽默.... 記得否？

我想說的是，如拿捏到 Dilbert 的幽默方式，而你又可以抛棄自己以往幽默的方式，在生活中重演Dilbert 幽默之處，或許便算讓自己獲得同樣的幽默智慧。如要超越，就要發掘新的幽默方法。

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Learn and Change... 無錯，我剛剛講緊既，都係一堆你阿媽係女人既拿破侖式內線 maneuver。